KEYS FOR A PEACEFUL AND SUCCESSFUL LIFE

Having a successful life doesn't mean that you are having a peaceful life implying that peace and success never overlap. But having peaceful life is an ultimate success even though both are different and need different approaches to secure them. The first key is to unlock our own brain and mind and make them up to do our best. Humans do have flaws and incapabilities. We may don't have what we want. Still, if we are carrying out our dreams or duties regardless of the flaws, we care a great deal. How far we can reach to get our dreams, how long we have to hold on patiently nothing matters if we are giving it our best shot with the deepest devotion. We should not get concerned about the future and the results of our hard works as life may end up unpredictably or drifts away from our intended direction. We have seen many people who toiled for something but got bombastic success in another matter that they didn't even expect. This is what life gives us. It may change the track wildly and we should have to drift our own way accordingly. Nothing can happen, neither fall nor surge when we are staying in a particular position unless choosing an option to get out and move on from the comfort zone. One day everything will make sense and feel that everything is connected. What all hurdles we had, how much hard work we had, everything will be sorted out.

Don’t compare ourselves with another person, it can distort our identity and true abilities. Whatever we have gotten is reasonable for us, for our dreams, and even for the completion of our life. Equating with another person can pervert our focus and peace. The blessing in us will be the fault in another, the fault in us will be the strong point in another one because every matter changes from person to person. No one can have an identical live situation, passion, behavior, or dream with another one. So there is no point in comparing with others. Being yourself is the utmost tranquility we can ever have.

 Don't be a black page in one’s story intentionally. None can give assurance that they haven't done any wrong to another person as it can happen involuntarily and accidentally. But if that comes from a rooted cruel intention it can deprive us of serene sleep. 

Finally, be kind and helpful to the needy without expecting anything back. Because expectation always hurts people but a ray of hope can make you positive and pleasant about life.

Let's remember the words of John Wooden that "Success is the peace of mind in knowing you did your best".